Thursday, 23 September 2010

Quit SMOKING !!! Cold Turkey

"Hey, Cowboy! You smell like Slash's hair !"

Question in my mind - Why do people smoke ? 

When I did a small survey to inquire why exactly people smoke, I came up with few answers which force a person to smoke. See the listed few :
  • It's fun to smoke.
  • It makes me feel am not alone.
  • It reminds me of old memories.
  • It makes me feel adult.
  • It gives a psychological satisfaction.
  • It's fun to celebrate any achievement with cigarette.
  • It takes you to different world
  • It helps me forgetting past and things which haunts me and blah blah blah .....
We all can notice from above lines that 'SMOKING' is something which is absolutely tasteless and has no superior taste and mildness but still people find reason to do on stake of their life. Many times I have noticed  people holding a full packet of cigarette feel a sense of confidence although with empty packet a feel of real frustration and deprivation.

One thousand Americans stop smoking every day - by dying.

But above all it has most traumatic and devastating effect on body and mind.

I don't believe on fake ideology that women shouldn't smoke and it is ok with men.

Stress is a big factor that drives people to smoke. Pressure is more on women then men sometimes like they are expected to work full-time, take care of households, raise children, and still have time to be attentive wives. 
Still do you think men have more reasons to smoke ?

Let's discus on ways to quit smoking and make this world 'Tobacco smoke free' :

First take a pledge to yourself that soon you will be non-smoker and don't worry if you fail in the process of quitting as nobody is successful in one shot .
  1.  Quitting can never happen from day 1. One needs to start cutting down quantity like when you really feel need delay it by 15-20 min and eventually your quantity will decrease.
  2. Whenever you feel urge to smoke - Deep breathe and remember you made promise to yourself not to touch it. Exhale and inhale fresh air with this thought 5 times and you will start feeling better.
  3. Take lot of water whenever you get that urge and in the meantime it will remove lot of nicotine from your body.
  4. Change your routine and hit the gym and you know you are not allowed over there.
  5. Involve yourself in a creative hobby or join some classess maybe music one.
  6. Ask for support from people by not smoking in front of you specially your colleagues and friends.
  7. Don't keep cigarette with you or at home. Out of sight is out of mind ideology.
  8. Say shut-up to yourself when your mind says - Just one cigarette :)
  9. Keep in mind that you are quitting not for a day or two but for ever so all nicotine in body needs to be removed.
  10. Try a healthy meal with topping of it with yummy dessert. Sugar is better then smoke. 
  11. Join a group or friend circle who are looking for quitting smoking and discuss always negativism of smoking.
  12. Last but not least don't forget all diseases which  can somewhere down the line will seperate you from your loved ones (heart disease,cancers of the lung, larynx, oral cavity, and esophagus,chronic bronchitis,emphysem,chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD or COLD)).
Somewhere in net I read about  START plan - Stop smoking plan (START)
S = Set a quit date.
T = Tell friends that you plan to quit.
A = Anticipate and plan for the challenges you'll face while quitting.
R = Remove cigarettes and other tobacco products from your home, car, and work.
T = Talk to your doctor about getting help to quit.

At the end I would just like to congratulate on your idea of quitting 'SMOKING' and accepting challenges, pains, happiness without depending on 1 small white stick called cigarette. Celebrate days with friends & family.

If you want to talk to me, you'll have to put out that cigarette ~ Jimmy Piersall 


Thursday, 16 September 2010

Innocence in danger - Wake-up

Why I have selected this topic ?

Well I have no clear projection for this but yes somewhere deep down I have a strong will to nurture society by contributing my time for improving the general conditions and making it better place to live. There are certain facts of life which every human being has to go through - study, finding a job, finding a partner, becoming parents, fulfilling general needs of family etc. But is this really sufficient for us or does it make our life meaningful ? Answer is  big 'NO'. These things are not basic aim of life these are just favorable conditions which can help you to grow and fulfill your actual purpose of life.

Am still wondering why exactly I was sent on this EARTH  for when am just doing what every other person is doing. Today I placed same question to my husband - 'Why I feel am slogging my days ahead rather then living them fully?' Like every time, he advised me with few options by which I can make a difference and one of them is to start blogging for things which I feel strongly need to be improved in society. Over the time at least I will be able to shape my desire and later actualize it.

Child Begging

It is almost a routine - while driving to or back from office I saw so many small kids 'begging' at traffic signal. Most of the time they are getting snubbed . All we do is to see them on signals and just say 'How can I help all of them?'  Most of the time, people advice me not to give them money but  my heart cry at their condition and then emotional quotient force me to give few coins or notes to them. I have even purchased many times their full bunch of balloons and gift it to my near and dear kids .Sometime I wonder - how these kids landed to such a situation ? Most of them are run-away child from their home in seek of money or freedom. Here they may have got into trap of gangs who promote begging and then it's never ending loop. Can't we do something about this ? I seriously think that any effort be it big or small do bring a change for them. What exactly is solution for this ?  Human Trafficking . But how well it will be to force beggars to jail and later make it their 2nd home. Still this question is open in my mind and am looking for an answer ??

We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet we forget that he is someone today.  ~Stacia Tauscher



 

Child Labour

This is  such a common scenario now days which starts from our own home where many of us have employed small kids for various services which I strictly object to. This is a human right issue and a serious problem for society. These small kids are hope for tomorrow and if they won't get chance to study it will lead to lot of negativity in society like murder, theft, stealing, begging etc. Schooling is very important part of one's life as your foundation is created over there and after that whatever comes you judge based on your base deployed .Worst scenario of child labour is seen in north part of India where it is accepted  practice. I have never seen any kid working with his/her own will. Either he/she is forced by family to increase source of income  or  is  forced by life. During my childhood I heard story of a monster who use to eat small kids and this is exactly what we are doing . I have no power in society to object this in totality but all I can do as a starting point is to pledge not to employ ever any child below age of 14. It is serious offense and factories employing small kids usually find way of bypassing child labour rules by declaring child as some distant relative. So all law made to remove this practice is now days is just existing for the sake of name. I really don't know where we all are going. At one point of life we want to be generous, helpful & good human being and just across the road we cover our face and start employing kids. Least we could do to them is to empathize them. 


 
While we try to teach our children all about life,Our children teach us what life is all about  ~ Angela Schwindt

Let's wake up else it will be too late !!!!